Sunday, 10 November 2013

Your Dream Guy Does Not Exist

Did you ever dream of who your ideal mate would be?  Maybe he'd be tall, nice voice, understanding, a 'fix-it' guy, sociable, great conversationalist, tender; you know... and the list goes on.

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Good + Bad = Perfect
I have bad news and good news.  The bad news is that your dream guy does not exist.  The good news is, there may be someone better, but you may have to get real with yourself in order to see it. 

If you find yourself making some of the statements below with your current guy, I've designed some responses to help set you straight and thankful for the one you've got.

Statement 1.  "He's really sweet but..."
Response: But what?  Isn't sweet what you want?

Statement 2.  "Everything is perfect except..."
Response: Give the guy a break, his flaws are probably what attracted you to him in the first place.

Statement 3.  "If he would just do things the way I want them done..."
Response: Then he'd be just like you and what would be the use?

Statement 4.  "I wish he would take initiative and not just do things because I ask him to.
Response: Huhhhh?  Are you hearing yourself?  You better be grateful that he listens!

Statement 5.  "If he leaves the toilet seat up one more time..."
Response: Just say you don't appreciate it and then get over yourself.

Statement 6.  "We used to spend quiet time together.  Now he's working all the time.  He's got no time for me."
Response: Is it because you have a laundry list of stuff you need?  Guy's just doing his job of providing.  Do yourself a favour and shorten your list of must-haves.  Meet him halfway.

Love or hate I'd be happy to hear your comments and anything you would like to add.

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